When I was 11 years old, my mother silently snuck into my bedroom. Under the cover of midnight, she sat cross-legged at the end of my bed and proceeded to give me The Talk, although it was more of a whisper. Instead of focusing on the anatomy of sex — the biological prophecies by which, some say, our bodies were made to meld into one — my mother chose to emphasize pleasure. She spoke about the importance of passion: pursuing it, asking for it and finding it within yourself. Society has a tendency to perpetuate this idea that the older a woman grows, the more she yearns for the beauty of her youth. It was once bewildering to me that my mother could be so candid about sex.
“We Slept With Hundreds of People”: 3 Older Women on Sex and Pleasure
Here's What 47 Women on Sex Over the Age of 50
Women over age 50 are having sex — and developing STIs — at a higher rate than commonly believed. The notion that women lose interest in sexual activity after menopause has collapsed under scientific scrutiny. Of those who were dissatisfied, more than half said they would prefer having sex more often. Many smaller studies corroborate the WHI results. All in all, it's become clear that older women are more sexually active than is commonly believed. These findings probably come as little surprise to older women themselves.
Sex and the mature woman.
COVID See our vaccine updates , safety measures , patient and visitor policies and latest information. For many older women, talking about sex is still downright awkward. But if you want to enjoy a happy, healthy sex life which has been shown to reduce stress and improve heart health , candid discussions with your partner and doctor are often essential. Here, an expert offers advice to help older women have a fulfilling sex life after menopause — and explains why it's still important to protect yourself during sex.
Image: Shutterstock. How often are married Canadians getting busy? If you think single Canucks are having all the fun in the bedroom, think again. It turns out, married couples are seeing plenty of action.